The Science Behind the Dad Bod


If you have heard the term “dad bod”, it probably triggered a distinct mental image. Body composition changes that smooth out muscular definition (increased body fat and decreased muscle mass) occur with aging but may feel sudden or rapid after becoming a parent. This is familiar to men and women alike, but the details of why this happens might not be entirely clear to the average dad.

Lifestyles Change Rapidly with Fatherhood

While you were busy raising kids and supporting your growing family, your lifestyle changed - and probably rapidly. First, adequate sleep seems like a distant memory. Time to exercise seems impossible. Food options on the table are limited. The stress of juggling work and family is through the roof. These changes can occur gradually for anyone, with or without kids. However, with fatherhood, these changes are all but guaranteed to occur suddenly.  

Identifying the most relevant issues that impact body composition is the first step to combatting the dad-bod changes. The research is clear on the relevant targets: sleep, physical activity, diet, testosterone, and cortisol (stress)1. These targets are all connected and, luckily, so are their solutions. 

Before diving into the science behind a father’s changing lifestyle and body, it’s important to recognize that the “dad bod” is hopefully an affectionate term. Physical changes are due to new priorities that occur with having children or being in a caregiving role. These roles (being a father and being a supportive partner) can be the most fulfilling and purposeful times in anyone’s life. A decline in self-care is natural with new challenges and shows involvement and dedication, which is something worth celebrating! Reviewing these health impacts is in no way an endorsement of pursuing unrealistic body standards while sacrificing connection with your family. The goal is to arm men with the knowledge to incorporate lifestyle changes that support their energy and health.  

The Effect of Poor Sleep on Male Physical Health 

Every parent jokes about the loss of sleep with babies, but it is no joke. New parents lose 1-3 hours of sleep per night in the first year2. While most nighttime care is done by women, even a small amount of lost sleep has a profound effect on both men and women. There are numerous studies done on the health and weight impact of sleep loss on mothers, but not as much on fathers. Sleep loss is an important factor in the decline in physical health in men, too.  

Loss of sleep causes three hormonal changes

  1. Lower testosterone 
  2. Lower melatonin 
  3. Higher cortisol

The Connection Between Sleep and Testosterone 

Sleep length and quality have an impact on testosterone levels3, 4.  Research has found that men need five or more hours of normal sleep (uninterrupted) to stimulate the hormone cascade that optimizes testosterone levels. If sleep is disrupted, morning testosterone can be significantly lower. Testosterone has several key impacts on men’s health. For one, it stimulates the growth and maintenance of muscle mass. Testosterone is the main reason why men have significantly higher muscle mass than women. Muscle burns fat and calories more than any other body tissue. Losing muscle mass is one way that aging causes slower metabolism. Secondly, testosterone improves insulin sensitivity5. Insulin helps bring sugar into cells to use for energy, and when cells become less sensitive to insulin, any excess sugar turns into stored energy (ie. fat).  

 

Sleep and Cortisol 

Becoming a father comes with not only poor sleep but also increased responsibilities and less time for self-care. These three changes are aided by cortisol, our stress hormone. Cortisol has a particularly powerful impact on weight gain6. Cortisol raises blood sugar, which, if not used up through exercise, will turn into belly fat. Not only does cortisol cause blood sugar changes and belly fat accumulation, but disrupted or impaired sleep also leads to increased cravings for sugary foods and a decrease in total exercise. Regardless of dietary changes that often coincide with parenting, having increased stress causes weight gain. Stress and cortisol also impair sleep, which in turn could lower testosterone levels, as described above.  

 

Sleep and Melatonin 

Loss of sleep causes a third hormonal impact: lower melatonin. This hormone is a powerful antioxidant and promotes deep and restful sleep. Not only does melatonin help you get better rest, but it also helps your body burn fat and stay lean through numerous physiological pathways2. It may improve insulin sensitivity and reduce inflammation and oxidation.  

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Fatherhood is Sometimes Followed by Diet and Lifestyle Changes 

In addition to the above hormonal impacts on weight, physical activity and diet also appear to decline with fatherhood. Sometimes referred to as “mom snacks”, dads are also inclined to eat the same foods they make for their kids. To feed picky children well, high-fat and high-sugar foods are often served to kids. These enticing crowd-pleasers are difficult for parents to resist. This can result in the whole family eating sub-optimal, weight gain-promoting, low-nutrition foods. This is unfortunate because while children often don’t immediately show the negative impacts of a poor diet, those impacts are still there.  

As for physical activity, the types of activities that provide plenty of intense exercise for little ones typically do not challenge an adult male. And since time is limited, getting to the gym or out to other activities can be nearly impossible some days or weeks. Again, like dietary changes, children benefit from a physically active family in ways that are not always immediately obvious.   

 

What Can Men Do to Get Rid of the Dad Bod?  

Man Sleeping ComfortablyOptimize sleep 

Sleep is best supported by low lights, minimal distractions, and improving daytime stress management, which in turn can increase natural melatonin levels. Depending on your situation, you may have unavoidable sleep disruptions, but prioritizing sleep can have numerous benefits on health and should be a top priority. This includes improving melatonin, normalizing cortisol, and optimizing testosterone levels. From improving mood and focus to helping with weight management and hormone balance, sleep is not only enjoyable for tired dads, but it’s a big win for the body.  

If you’re considering melatonin supplements, be aware that melatonin may not prevent weight gain because loss of sleep causes weight gain in several ways. There is no magical weight loss supplement, however, some find it helps optimize sleep during times of increased stress, and some studies do show it may improve weight management7. After increased cortisol, sugar cravings that occur with fatigue, and reduced testosterone, sleep, and optimal melatonin are only a small piece of the puzzle, but they shouldn’t be neglected.  

Manage stress 

Meditation, cognitive behavioral therapy, and simplifying life are all easy ways to lower cortisol. Since cortisol and stress are big components of weight gain, many find relaxation to be the most enjoyable part of a weight loss strategy, but it is often neglected. Don’t let this gem of a strategy pass you by.  

Focus on healthy whole foods 

Whole foods provide nutrients, protein, and fiber which help with blood sugar and weight management. This is important for the whole family! 

Increase exercise 

Physical activity not only burns calories and builds muscle, but helps sleep, improves insulin sensitivity, and lowers cortisol. Children are not likely to enjoy running laps or lifting weights, therefore activities should be creatively designed. Turning family play days into a time for lifting, running, and jumping can increase overall physical activity. The main takeaway is that men become more sedentary with parenthood (or aging), and it doesn’t need to be that way.  

Test your hormones 

Sometimes it might be best to measure hormone levels including sex hormones and adrenal hormones. Testing can also give insights into the circadian rhythm and melatonin. A comprehensive hormone test can help you figure out if you need a more clinical approach to your lifestyle changes.  

Men’s health is an often neglected topic when it comes to fatherhood, aging, and/or hormones. However, lifestyle changes associated with aging or fatherhood can lead to loss of muscle mass and abdominal weight gain. These changes are not inevitable but are the result of poor sleep, a decline in testosterone, increased stress, an inflammatory diet, and reduced physical activity. Fast fixes like crash diets and short-lived exercise programs may increase stress and negatively impact hormones even further, failing to address the root cause. In truth, the root causes should be addressed first by assessing and optimizing sleep, stress, and testosterone and making steady lifestyle improvements.